Mike,
telling the difference between the two sorts of brake fade is easy. If the pedal goes spongy and then to the floor, your brake fluid is old and the water vapour dissolved in it has boiled. If you exceed the working temperature of the pad material and its coefficient of friction drops off, you need to press ever harder on the pedal to have the same retardation, but this is usually accompanied by some obvious very hot brake smells, smoke coming out of the wheel arches when you stop etc.
The DS2500 pad is good for two reasons: 1. it is tolerant of high temperatures and 2. it has a high (and constant) coefficient of friction so you need less force on the pedal than with standard pads.
In my experience, the M1144 material is nothing like as good as DS2500.
You might want to have a chat with Alyn at AS Performance 0191 410 3770 who is very knowledgeable. I was looking for some DS2500 pads for another car recently but they were rather expensive. Alyn told me that Brembo had recently introduced a product which was benchmarked against the DS2500 but it is being marketed at a lower price. He may well know about whether it is less likely to squeal. Oddly enough, my DS2500 pads (9-5 Aero brakes on a 9000) have never squealled.
Brake squeal is caused by the pad vibrating. Some make of pads (M1144 from memory) come with a stick on pad which is supposed to stop squeal. I think 3M make a product which is widely available on-line, or I may even have some Mintex stick on pads lurking in my garage that you could have. Many companies (Wurth, Bosch, LiquiMoly etc) sell anti squeal grease/paste/goo. I feel sure that trying the stick on pads would be worth while. See here
http://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/Brake-Pad-Anti-Squeal-backing-pads-3M-x4-ASK1-/191314514764Was the quietly spoken police officer of the German or Austrian type?